Soulmate Skills

“I just can’t decide.”  Ever said that?  Most of us do at some time or other.  Whether it’s choosing what restaurant to eat at or whether to marry someone, it’s not uncommon to think, “No matter what I decide it’s going to be the wrong thing.”  We’ve discovered what such indecision is about:  It’s that you’re out of touch with your Natural Self.  That’s the part of you that’s full of aliveness and knows what it wants.  The reason you can’t access your Natural Self:  You’ve bought into your Inner Critic shoulds.  Once you do that, your Natural Self wishes get obscured.  What to do?  Get free from your Inner Critic.  Identify each should that’s blocking your decision-making.  Then declare a releasing statement.  In Disarming Your Inner Critic, we offer step-by-step skills to equip you to get free.  You have the right to make decisions that lead to a happy life.  We support you in going for your bliss.

“I don’t know what’s wrong with me.  I just don’t have any energy.”  Ever felt this way?  Thought “I just can’t get motivated”?  Here’s the culprit:  Your Inner Critic.  It condemns the part of you that is full of aliveness and energy for living–your Natural Self.  Your Inner Critic calls the plans, ideas, and feelings of your Natural Self ”bad, wrong, silly.”  If you believe that, you squelch your dreams and submerge all that energy for motivating yourself to reach them.  So if you’re low-energy today, ask yourself, “Am I doing what my Natural Self wants to be doing or what my Inner Critic says I should do?”  When you start doing what your Natural Self wants, your energy will flow.  There will be no stopping you. 

Note:  For specific help on how to recognize your Inner Critic and get free from it, read our book “Disarming Your Inner Critic.”  It’s available here on our Products page and at amazon.com.