Soulmate Skills

Giving the benefit of the doubt.  Seeing it from their perspective.  Softening your heart.  All of these form an attitude of good will toward your partner.  They’re in contrast to suspiciousness, demonizing, and hardening your heart.  Choosing the latter is a temptation when we’re hurting or angry.  It is a choice.  And what we choose is what we get.  Choose good will today.  And if you’re soulmate questing, choose a partner who values good will as much as you do.