Soulmate Skills

Establishing Criteria for a Life Partner, Friend or Relative Booklet

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That longing for a soul-deep connection has been in all of us since infancy. We, too, know that longing. We lived with it for years, searching for the one who would want that kind of intimacy too. Finally, in 1989 we found it. There, at the start of our doctoral program at a conference center on the Pacific coast, we met. And after ten days had to part—Jim to return to Berkeley, California, and Kathryn to fly home to Louisiana. But, we couldn’t stand being apart. So we began writing– 130 letters in all. Over the next two months we discovered that we had found something amazing. We had to get married. We had found our Soulmate.

So, in July 1989 we married. Since that time, we have taught, practiced, written, and traveled together, and along the way developed our relationship ideas. Over time we’ve used our own relationship as a test kitchen and have expanded the ideas Jim originated, called Anthetic Psychology. These tried and tested ideas are now the concepts and skills that form the foundation of what we have come to call the High-Voltage Relationship. The High-Voltage Relationship is a relationship marked by mutual honesty, depth, communication, and emotional closeness. It is a relationship with your Soulmate.

In 2009, Jim suffered a stroke that left him in need of contstant care and tested our relationship in brand new ways. The skills we developed and used for the past two decades have kept our connection as strong as ever, able to withstand the stresses and challenges that a stroke can bring.

Now, we want to share those concepts, principles and skills for high-voltage soulmate relating with you. We know how reliable they are for crafting and sustaining deep emotional closeness, because we use them everyday in our own Soulmate Relationship.

The first step in the process is finding a partner who will want the kind of intimacy you want. You’ll need to be equipped to recognize such a partner. You’ll, in fact, need criteria. Here, we share with you how to get started on your soulmate quest.
For those of you already in a committed relationship these skills can help you gain clarity as to the qualites you both can develop to deepen and further expand your relationship.

Not only can these skills guide your choice of partner and development of your relationship, they are also reliable for improving your relatioships with friends, relatives, co-workers, and others. They will equip you for meaningful communication in all aspects of your life.

Our best wishes to you as you begin this exciting soulmate journey,

-Jim & Kathryn Elliott