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		<title>Jim &amp; Kathryn&#8217;s Soulmate Thought for the Day&#8211;What Do You Say after You Say, &#8220;I&#8217;m Sorry&#8221;</title>
		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;We say, &#8216;I&#8217;m sorry,&#8217;&#8221; she told me.  &#8220;But it&#8217;s getting old.  Because nothing changes.  We just hurt each other again.  So my question is, what do you say after you say, &#8216;I&#8217;m sorry&#8217;?&#8221;  I loved her question and felt her pain.  No one taught us how to do relationships.  And often our models (e.g., our [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.soulmateskills.org/2011/07/31/jim-kathryns-soulmate-thought-for-the-day-what-do-you-say-after-you-say-im-sorry/</link>
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		<title>Jim &amp; Kathryn&#8217;s Soulmate Thought for the Day&#8211;You Can Be Happy!</title>
		<description><![CDATA[She walked across the campus greeting each person with a smile and a bright &#8220;Good Morning!&#8221;  With only one exception she received a grunt, &#8220;Uh,&#8221; in reply!  To the one person who returned her smile and greeting, she said, &#8220;How are you?&#8221;  He said, &#8220;Blessed!&#8221;  She agreed with him, &#8220;Me too!&#8221;  The lesson I see [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.soulmateskills.org/2011/07/08/jim-kathryns-soulmate-thought-for-the-day-you-can-be-happy/</link>
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		<title>Jim &amp; Kathryn&#8217;s Soulmate Thought for the Day&#8211;The Power of Your Word</title>
		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Our Word backed by the power of our assertiveness and our intention shapes what happens.&#8221;  (James Elliott to Kathryn, 1989)
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		<link>http://www.soulmateskills.org/2011/07/07/jim-kathryns-soulmate-thought-for-the-day-the-power-of-your-word/</link>
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		<title>Jim &amp; Kathryn&#8217;s Soulmate Thought for the Day&#8211;Lagniappe and Love</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I was only going for my Ph.D.  At least that&#8217;s what I thought.  But the Universe had other plans.  It had lagniappe for me.  In Cajun culture, that&#8217;s when you get something extra added to what you expected.  My lagniappe was Jim&#8211;sitting waiting for me in that meeting room the first day of my Ph.D. [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.soulmateskills.org/2011/06/20/jim-kathryns-soulmate-thought-for-the-day-lagniappe-and-love/</link>
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		<title>Jim &amp; Kathryn&#8217;s Soulmate Thought for the Day&#8211;Jim&#8217;s Blessing to Us</title>
		<description><![CDATA[As I come to terms with Jim&#8217;s death, I&#8217;m processing what his legacy is to us.  So, it was perfect last night when I read his letter to me from March, 1989, written four months before we married.  He closed his letter with these words, &#8220;I pour myself out to you&#8211;I touch the divinity in [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.soulmateskills.org/2011/06/16/jim-kathryns-soulmate-thought-for-the-day-jims-blessing-to-us/</link>
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		<title>Jim &amp; Kathryn&#8217;s Soulmate Thought for the Day&#8211;Soulmates Spoil Each Other!</title>
		<description><![CDATA[At the drive-thru window, she ordered her plate lunch.  He asked her, &#8220;Would you like anything else?&#8221;  She thought, then said, &#8220;Yes, I think I&#8217;ll call my husband and get him a Coke.&#8221;  The server liked that.  He said, &#8220;I don&#8217;t know how long you&#8217;ve been married, but I&#8217;ve been married 28 years, and my [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.soulmateskills.org/2011/06/15/jim-kathryns-soulmate-thought-for-the-day-soulmates-spoil-each-other/</link>
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		<title>Jim &amp; Kathryn&#8217;s Soulmate Thought for the Day&#8211;Soulmates Give Each Other the Glory</title>
		<description><![CDATA[It was the premier psychological conference.  We had prepared to present our new work there.  As people began filing in to view our work and ask about it, I looked around for Jim.  Why, he was standing back, away from our display.  And he was beaming at me!  He was letting me have the glory!  [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.soulmateskills.org/2011/06/13/jim-kathryns-soulmate-thought-for-the-day-soulmates-give-each-other-the-glory/</link>
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		<title>Jim &amp; Kathryn&#8217;s Soulmate Thought for the Day&#8211;James Emerson Elliott, Ph.D., In Celebration</title>
		<description><![CDATA[James Emerson Elliott, Ph.D.  Friends, family, colleagues celebrated his life June 3, 2011.  He was more than a soulmate to me.  He was a playmate and a singer of songs.  We sang some of his favorite playful songs (&#8220;Mandalay,&#8221; &#8220;The Casket Song,&#8221; and &#8220;Downtown&#8221;).  He was a spiritual guide, teaching us to dialogue directly with [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.soulmateskills.org/2011/06/12/jim-kathryns-soulmate-thought-for-the-day-james-emerson-elliott-ph-d-in-celebration/</link>
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		<title>Jim &amp; Kathryn&#8217;s Soulmate Thought for the Day&#8211;You Don&#8217;t Have to be a Romantic to Do It</title>
		<description><![CDATA[He runs her bath water.  He picks up after himself.  He even holds her purse when she has to go to the bathroom in a public place.  He&#8217;s no wuss.  He&#8217;s also a former Marine, strong, muscular, with work-hardened hands.  I asked him, &#8221;How did you learn to be so caring?&#8221;  His answer:  &#8220;You don&#8217;t have [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.soulmateskills.org/2011/06/11/jim-kathryns-soulmate-thought-for-the-day-you-dont-have-to-be-a-romantic-to-do-it/</link>
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		<title>Jim &amp; Kathryn&#8217;s Soulmate Thought for the Day&#8211;Mourning My Soulmate&#8217;s Passing</title>
		<description><![CDATA[My beloved soulmate, Jim, has died.  I was right beside him; my head touching him, my hand holding his.  He was surrounded in love as his heart fluttered and stopped.  To have had him as my husband, colleague and soulmate was the greatest gift of my life.  I am so grateful.  We are planning a [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.soulmateskills.org/2011/05/31/jim-kathryns-soulmate-thought-for-the-day-mourning-my-soulmates-passing/</link>
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